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Old Apr 28, 2020, 10:43 PM
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Originally Posted by BethRags View Post
You're not posting too much, MM.

It took me over 30 years to learn not to tangle with my husband. I refuse to do it anymore. I finally understand that arguing with him only hurts me. I let him burn himself out as I just sit there, taking good, full breaths and placing my focus on my own self-care, rather than his words, attitude, and mood.
Good post

His words, attitude and mood are not as important as your self care

In fact if he is being mean they are of no importance since mean words are full of crap.

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