So, we talked about our past marriages and experiences. He seems quite open. He is very rich too and has a house here. I like him much but you're right, I need to take it slowly. He wrote me this afternoon and will write me again tonight. I think he has nothing to hide. I told him my past too. He does not want to retire here though. But, that is so far off, I'm not worried about it. I think we will be just friends and lovers. I don't think I want to get married. I will just go with the flow. Thank you for your advice!!