For safety reasons, send him a photo of you holding a piece of paper saying "HI (Username)!" And ask that he send you the same so you can show a friend that he's real.
If he continues to find excuses not to send a photo of a piece of paper, DO NOT GO.
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"I know you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant."
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