Hi BPforever1,

I will encourage you to take it very slow. I see red flags too. The biggest red flag I notice it there are no fault with him. We all have faults. With true transparency and autonomy, someone who take ownership of their flaws and are not afraid to expose them, is so much more trustworthy.

Food for thought - Create a pros and cons list, if nothing shows up under cons - you may have a potential problem.
What are YOUR needs, desires, and requirements? Knowing those in advance aids in screening potential partners, and provides you with reassurance and confidence with your own boundaries.
And finally, how much of this introduction are you basing it only on what you have seen to date, is making him to be the “perfect guy”, rather than using caution and filtering through your standards?

I hear your excitement, I hear he’s perfect, I hear your ready to throw caution to the wind. What I don’t hear is who he really is. Hoping you’ll take it slow, and give yourself something to base and guide your goals in moving forward.

Fingers crossed for you.

All my best,
SMS20