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Old Apr 29, 2020, 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted by rdgrad15 View Post
I've heard of people claiming that they may not like someone for no particular reason or that anyone can dislike someone for no reason at all. I've always thought there really is a reason. The reason may be small, may even be stupid and judgmental, but it's still a reason. I've always thought when someone says they just don't like someone and they claim they don't know why or they just say there is no reason at all for the dislike, I think there honestly is a reason but either there is a reason that they haven't accepted yet or they just simply don't want to say anything, which I respect that. I can understand why someone may not want to get into the reasons they dislike someone. Usually due to a fear of backlash and may just simply not like gossiping, especially if it's something stupid and insignificant.

In most cases, I've seen it where someone may claim to not like someone for no reason but it turns out it is because of conflicting personalities. Usually one person, or even both people, don't like something they see in each other that they dislike about themselves. Do you think there is always a reason someone may dislike someone? I do agree that no one likes everyone. That's not possible. It's human nature to not be pleased with everyone. But I do believe there always is a reason, in a lot of cases, conflicting personalities that one or both people have but they may keep it to themselves. Have anyone ever had someone claim they dislike someone for no reason, but you can tell there actually is a reason? Just wondered what you guys thought. I honestly think there's always a reason. May be small and stupid, but there's a reason.
For my, usually there always is something overt, like the way that they treat me or other people. I'm going to chalk this up to stereotypical 'woman's intuition' but there are times where my spider senses tingle and I get a bad vibe from someone. It doesn't have to be anything major, but it could be a pattern of how they say things, their tone or their viewpoints on things. And, it has to be a pattern. I rarely base judgment on one incident.

Certain guys just gave me creep factor and I was usually right. But, I am always willing to adjust my viewpoint if I was wrong.
Thanks for this!
rdgrad15