I echo that. What I hear is idealization and romanticism of someone you haven't met yet -- he's perfect right now. What I also heard was your tendency to rush in with the wrong man. All of this glaringly sends a lot of red flags. Why not instead approach this with healthy skepticism and a "we'll see" and "this all depends on what he's really like". You do not know this person at all except for how he's made himself out to be so far, all online and in his photos. People say anything online and frequently LIE.

It would most wise of you to learn from past mistakes of rushing in with all the wrong men. You don't want to keep repeating that, right? So be more skeptical. Be wise. TAKE IT SLOW AND SLOW DOWN. Wait and see to find out who this person REALLY is. You really know not much of him yet.