it really depends on the cause behind it. i myself used to hate seeing other people who are more successful than me. which does affect you in some way but i realized that those people are just better than me and i can learn something from them. i believe we can all learn something from each other. it's just that we focus on certain stuff that we lack and forget about everything we do better than others.

we also sometimes look at having stuff is equal to having happiness. like having kids for example, some people feel like having a kid would make them happy but it will just make them have more responsibility. from raising the kid to protecting him to getting him ready for life the best way. are all responsibilities that i think unfortunately a lot of parents have never thought of , well atleast not my parents.

the way i see social media is that it's a fake reality. people always posing when they look good, always posing when they feel better. no one is going to show you their dark side or what they did or suffer from. i do feel you K0123, having mental issues is such a *****. hopefully you'll find your way out of it and do whatever you want to do.