Hi KO123,
I can't say it's a habit of mine to make the kinds of comparisons you're referring to - yes, completely human comparisons - but if on the odd occasion I do find myself doing that, I just remind myself that I am me and they are them. That when it comes to people, what you see on the surface - Facebook, Instagram, and all these apps you hear people talking about - doesn't necessarily reveal the whole truth [not by a long shot in many instances] and that my personal struggles with life, and through this life, are ample reason why the comparisons don't match up. For some reason I don't feel bad about that. It's just facts.
So, that's what I do to avoid it, I guess you could say.
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