Thank you all for your thoughts on this. I am in the same boat. Why should he have any contact with the child? He never wanted her anyway. His communication to the child is so fake. And honestly he doesn't even know her at all. The longest he has ever been around her was 6 hours. I know It's just a way to be able to talk to my wife. It really makes me sick that this narcissistic man always seems to get what he wants in the end. We went to court in February and even the judge sees right through him. Told him if he didn't use even minute of his next visits before we go back to court he may take his rights away. So why help this monster at all? I feel he needs to figure this out on his own. He has his foot in the door now and I just feel in my heart that he is going to eventually go off again. He is a ticking time bomb.