Often there are things that don’t make sense until you learn more about how a person develops and how person can often be drawn to someone that is bad like this. Often the root comes from a woman unknowingly picking a man like her father because of how certain behaviors are familiar and then having a deep desire to get the love a child just could not seem to get.

It would be helpful to learn about her parents and what kind of man her father was/is.

Do you know her history?