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Originally Posted by Have Hope
@ justneedtotalk76, what would help you the most right now? Yo've gotten some opinions on your wife needing to create better boundaries with the ex. In the meantime, you two are growing apart somewhat, or there's now a distance between you because of the ex abusive monster. A couple of us had suggested approaching your wife to ask the reason why she feels disconnected from you. Is that a good place for you to start? What other kind of help and advice are you hoping to receive from the thread? |
I wanted to be heard by someone and make sure what I am feeling is justified. I also want to try and patch things up with her and get back to where we our before he came back into the picture.
I can't keep avoiding it though. We do need to discuss this and set firm boundaries. I don't want to feel this way anymore and it isn't healthy for either of us. Thank you all for listening to me. I don't really like laying my problems on others, but didn't know where else to turn.