to preface this, this is the first serious relationship i’ve been in. the previous ones never went very far (in short, i was inattentive and nervous which destroyed them pretty quickly) and now i’m stuck with no experience relationship-wise let alone sexually. we are also both transgender men, he’s not on hormones yet while i’ve been on hormones for 2 1/2years.
i want to ask him what he likes and all that *hot* stuff, but i’m just so nervous about asking anything remotely sexual. self-esteem plays a big role in this too, as i’m not very confident in my pre-op body. does anyone have any tips? :,)