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Originally Posted by idknow
I started to get an immense sense of doubt and second guessing my decision of being with him.
I kept telling myself that I was faking liking him and that I was actually trying to force myself into all of this.
I’ve also started to cringe at some things he says to me, things that I used to like and made me feel good.
I constantly worry he’s not “the right one” and I’m just too scared of being lonely and that’s why I’m with him.
One of them is sure that I want a steady relationship, and the other is telling me to get out of there and not let him get closer to me.
I’m so scared I’m gonna hurt him because he genuinely cares for me
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My understanding is that you're wanting a relationship and he's not the one for you. Just because he's caring and wants "you" in his life, it doesn't mean he's right for "you".
I suspect the honeymoon phase ended and you're starting to see the reality of who he is and what you want.
Listen to your gut instincts. It's ok to end a relationship with someone who is super nice, caring, and loving.. if they're not meant to be with us. I'm guessing this is your struggle.. "He really cares about me, I want to be in "a" relationship, and I'm feeling anxious about this." Maybe he's just not for you and that's ok.