Yes, you are a good and decent man. It sounds like she changed over the years, and for worse. That is not right for her to make demands on you with your own family like that. I’m disliking your wife very much right now and am angry at her on your behalf. What she’s doing to you is unacceptable in my opinion. It’s not loving behavior and there’s nothing equal or reciprocal in this relationship. It’s pure selfishness on her part, like I said above. It’s not fair to you.

So why do you stay at this point, I wonder? For the kids? Or is this possibly the beginnings of the end for you? Sounds like it could very well be.