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Originally Posted by divine1966
Well clearly your bedroom issue isn’t going to be resolved as you've been struggling with it for too many years. Honestly you have to find other outlets for whatever is that you want in the bedroom. He obviously can’t give it to you the way you want it. It’s not as simple as him refusing to wash dishes. Sexual incompatibility might also be due to being in different place in life? Age wise? Hormones wise? Difference in libido? That’s not uncommon
If you are compatible in all other areas and want to stay married, then I’d find ways to deal with it. Lots of people aren’t 100% compatible in all areas.
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The psy says I have brain damage from prolonged trauma. Hopefully the meds will ‘rebuild the engine’ (as he says). I never met anyone else on here with my issue. And, I agree, no way would I dare to walk into yet another therapist’s office to discuss this issue that has endured 20 years.
My reactions have been less severe since these meds. I am optimistic.
Of course I can keep busy with other things, but there will always be the sex issue. I am trying so hard to change my attitude and think it’s all great, precious, a blessing, enjoy the time we have left. Now if I can just stop having panic attacks...
