Do you want more sex or some kind of particular sex or just more affection in general? I wonder if desire for it is diminishing with menopause approaching? My interest in it totally diminished as I hit menopause. My gyn said it’s typical and normal. Affection remains very important to me though.

So maybe you’d have your priorities shifted with age

I feel bad you are suffering. I should shut up. I am practical and I think practical advice is no help here. Sorry. I want you to be content