Yeah... I completely understand that. I won’t hijack the thread or make it about me at all, but my own marriage has some problems and it’s rather complicated even without kids. There are times when I think I should leave him, but then it’s complicated.

Anyways, I understand how relationships can be rather complex and not so black and white. Add years together, a long history, kids, a home with a mortgage perhaps, finances and then maybe even conflicted feelings and it all becomes even more complex.