Just an observation but you flip flop back and forth about this wealthier man. First you like him, then you don’t, now you do. And you’ve related several things that are negative to you about him: self absorbed, kind of boring, talks about himself a lot.. you also express that you’re lonely. Don’t just take ANY man that comes along who shows an interest just because you’re lonely. Have some standards. And stick to them. Don’t convince yourself to date someone with unliikable traits just because they show interest. I personally think he sounds shallow, money obsessed and obnoxious.