Thank you for your input! I think I have gotten enough suggestions now. I know what to do. Thank you for your insight!

I am not bowled over by him but he is ok. I've met some nice guys long ago but never was interested in them. They had something else wrong with them that I did not like. May be, they were physically unappealing or something wrong with them which I could not overlook. I think you are right, I am just settling for some guy but he's better than the others I dated in the past.

I will take a chance with him and see where it goes. I don't like to serial date as I said. I will take the responsibility of knowing he has character flaws.


I don't know what he thinks about me but do know he is attracted to me. He also likes it when I just sit there and listen. I like him because he is interesting to listen to. He talks about his travels and his businesses and the women he has met. He is an open book. I like this rather than someone who is reticent and never says anything about himself. I know he is truthful. Yes, he is crass and may be crude somewhat. But, he is ok. If I had been infatuated with him and could not see any flaws in him, this would not be good either. I see him as he is. And, he likes me!! So, I think it is ok.


Well, thank you all!! Yes, my standards are not as high as before. But, I feel good with him!! I don't have to talk too much and he still enjoys being with me. I like being liked. His wealth has given him many experiences. So, now he wants to be with regular people. I am regular, I guess.

Yes, I met a scammer online which was bad!! You all got me out of that one fast. And, now, I've met this man who is ok!! Well, it is better than the man with the stroke who pretended to be a friend then demanded sex from me. What a cad!!

Let's say I don't have much luck with finding a good man. I have searched but the good men are taken at my age. That is a fact!! Hope you all have good men in your lives!