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Originally Posted by MsLady
How do you feel about having innocent crushes outside of the relationship that is, and will never be, a threat to the relationship? Do you think it's common in healthy relationships?
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If you have a crush, you don’t let your partner, or anyone, know. My husband has even been a little jealous when I said I thought certain actors were handsome and had a crush. He’s mentioned crushes he had on actresses, and I wasn’t jealous. I know it’s just a far away crush on someone he will never really meet, and neither of us were obsessed.
What makes a crush ‘innocent’? You would never act on it? Are you flirting with this person? That’s not so innocent. That’s trending into emotional affair territory.