Could be. I didn’t suggest recording secretly though.

I once heard my voice mail left to my daughter that I thought was just me being irritated and giving directions. Boy, I sounded insane. I still remember what I was saying but I clearly wasn’t even aware that I was screaming in total frenzy. My daughter had a good laugh with it. We still laugh about it 20 years later. It helped to hear how awful I sounded. Sometimes we might not know how we come across especially if he doesn’t even think he acts bad