He got himself into jail -- you did not accomplish that for him - he did that all himself, and he is entirely responsible for the position he is now in. Do not let him railroad you into believing that HIS issues that he now faces are YOUR fault. You have an addiction and need treatment. You both need rehab of sorts in order to function and thrive in society. He needs a halfway house after jail to be able to stay out of jail.

I wonder what it is that you see in this guy and want?