Thank you so much for sharing. Your story sounds very similar to mine. Except we have two kids instead of pets. We’ve tried couples counseling but since it didn’t work for his first marriage so he didn’t put in his full effort into it. We are still trying to work things out. There are other issues at play but we both want our marriage to last so we are still trying to figure things out on our own. I believe we need help from outside sources but because of the quarantine here we are for now.

I’m so sorry you are going thru that right now. It’s a terrible feeling. Stay strong and I hope it works out for for you. Whether it’s separated or working on your marriage.