Oh it’s so annoying

If you don’t ask for help and aren’t even in regular communication with these folks, their intrusiveness is obnoxious. It’s annoying like heck.

Sometimes people, who don’t have their life together, act like they must be helping others with their unsolicited advice or unwelcomed analysis- your case is “interesting”. It is a deflection.

They take focus of their own messed up life and focus on others. In this case they never have to improve their own life, they are too “busy” supposedly showing support for others and give unsolicited gifts or advice when it’s not even needed or asked for.

Feel free to ignore these people. They might appear as they “care” but it’s possible it’s just their excuse not to take care of their own business.

You are doing great and don’t let this nonsense bother you