I think he yells in part to intimidate me from ever questioning him. I questioned him why he was taking my hairbrush last Friday to work without asking me. And I got outrage, accusations, yelling, and blame in reply. All I did was ask him why he didn't ask me first since it's MY hairbrush. He walked into the living room informing me he was taking it to work, which I felt was rude and inconsiderate since I use that brush every day and it's MINE. He has his own. So I should not have questioned him apparently, or else I get rage.

So yeah he intimidates me from speaking up. That's why I felt more comfortable giving him my ultimatum by text yesterday and not in person.