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The way I've interpreted the remark @ "don't even know we're having them" is that therapy (self, group, through books, whatever) makes us conscious that there is/was a trigger. Until that happens, we sit around feeling blue, helpless to do anything.

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Hi Wants,

Yes, that's the core of it, recognizing the trigger for what it is.

Cheers, e.