Thread: Marriage may need to end: enormous grief and sadness
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Old May 06, 2020, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
You are being strong and realistic. That what counts.

Yeah every situation could be resolved if people reflect on their words and actions. “Sorry, I really do need to ask about taking your stuff. I need to do better and I’ll do better next time”. I bet there’d no fight after that. Simple. Why oh why some people escalate stuff. Stuff like this could be learned in therapy if it doesn’t come naturally
Thank you!!

And agreed! It could have easily been resolved. But nooooooo... he exploded. Yes, it can be learned, IF someone is willing. If they don't think they have a problem, then that's a problem.

I think I know what pushed in part to blow up too. I will talk about that aspect later.. it's about our financial ties together.
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Last edited by Have Hope; May 06, 2020 at 05:02 PM.
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