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Old May 07, 2020, 06:11 AM
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What would you say is appropriate when talking to your partner? Do you think it's ok for him/her to make comments to you about your sexual parts? Do you take it as a compliment or do you find it inappropriate to have them talk about your body parts at random times?
I think when two partners are intimate and have emotional intimacy, then talking about body parts sexually - and even at random - is a natural part of that intimacy. I don't have issues with it myself. To me, it says they're attracted to you.

But if it's a constant - like constant sexual objectification of a person - and that is all there is in the relationship is a sexual attraction - that will reveal itself and may become uncomfortable if one person wants more or if one person wants the emotional intimacy too.
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