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Originally Posted by MsLady
What would you say is appropriate when talking to your partner? Do you think it's ok for him/her to make comments to you about your sexual parts? Do you take it as a compliment or do you find it inappropriate to have them talk about your body parts at random times?
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What kind of comments? Like you are eating dinner and he says I like your ....? That’s bizarre. Or is it in a different context? How random and how often is it?
What’s appropriate is what YOU as a couple or you as an individual find appropriate. It’s very subjective. If your partner does or says something that you personally find annoying and inappropriate, then you have to tell him and he has to stop. If he doesn’t stop then it’s a problem
I’d like to be helpful with specific situations that would bother me but some of your scenarios are really vague. Do you have a specific example? I feel that your partner does a lot of things that you find bothersome and you want to know if we find it bothersome. I would be bothered going by some scenarios you described, but it depends on a context.
We all have different deal breakers. Things i’d not put up with are perfectly normal for others. What’s important what bothers you