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Originally Posted by divine1966
In addition we all stuck at home and can’t do much of anything. I am sorry it’s a rough day. Pandemics isn’t helping. Don’t worry about it being an anniversary. Take pressure of it. Just think of it as another day
I think you two just need to talk and see where you stand. Reduction of sexual activity could be stress or age related and that’s normal. If it’s related to problem in break in emotional intimacy then it’s something to look into. It might not be a big deal at all.
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Yes -- we're stuck at home, and that creates stress and hardship all by itself.
We are of an older age, we both have had a lot of work stress, and we're both totally exhausted by the end of the work day. He told me a while back that that's all it was. And then the pandemic hit, and we can't go out. Then there was financial stress when his work hours were drastically reduced.
But in our blowout fight last Friday, he tried to blame me and issues we've had for our lack of sex. I called him out on that, and he retracted his statement and said he blames me for nothing.
On the flip side, before this blowout, we were most affectionate and loving with each other, cuddling and snuggling every night and being very sweet together.