You will not catch me in a sexy dress, ever. I don't typically sport a cleavage, either. A sweater I was wearing showed some. I'm a "nice shirt" and jeans kinda girl. I've never dressed provocatively.. just never felt inclined to. So the compliments I do get is when I'm by chance wearing something more fitting.. a newer top, skinny jeans..

I do think he judges women by their sexual parts. A couple times in the distant past, he'd be rude to a young waitress who was flat chested and wearing a fitted shirt. "Rude" as in, he'd look at her shirt as if she shouldn't have been wearing it.. by avoiding eye-contact.. by barking his order like she was beneath him. I find this behaviour strange because he's not a "boob" man but treated them like that, anyway.
I did address this with him and he claimed to not being aware of it at all.

As far as being around the girls, sometimes he's trying to be discreet but as I've told him before, he does NOT have a whisper voice. People can hear him.. our girls can, too. Other times he's impulsive and doesn't even consider that speaking in sexual ways, even minimally, is inappropriate for our daughters to hear. Same with talking about the local drug addicts and the specific drug they're on.. or using the expression, "pulled the trigger" when expressing something that has nothing to do with a gun. Am I being critical?