“You will not catch me in a sexy dress, ever. I don't typically sport a cleavage, either. A sweater I was wearing showed some. I'm a "nice shirt" and jeans kinda girl. I've never dressed provocatively.. just never felt inclined to. So the compliments I do get is when I'm by chance wearing something more fitting.. a newer top, skinny jeans..”

^I wonder if his compliments are his way to encourage you to dress more sexy. He’s not doing it in a good way, and why in front of the girls?

His treatment of the waitress is really strange. It sounds like he has some really skewed attitudes. It might have something to do with the overweight mother and sister, his father’s attitudes, and his sense of narcissism. His treatment of the waitress is arrogant, and over breast size is mind boggling.

I’m not sure what to suggest to you. I hope you get along better in other areas and can voice your boundaries and come to an agreement with him.

All that attention on the looks of your daughter concerns me, too.