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Old May 07, 2020, 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post

So you don’t think he has control over staring at women and being inappropriate or argumentative or whatever other things he does? If that’s the case, he needs official diagnosis demonstrating how he has no control over anything. I don’t think you’d ever find such diagnosis unless maybe you can prove that he is incapacitated
It's not really what I think. It's what he's told me. He's "unaware".. has "no memory" of it, must have been "subconscious".. must lack self awareness.. etc.

He briefly mentioned the "women" issue to his therapist. She said it's a "mindfulness" issue. He started reading the book called, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy workbook and it has a unit on mindfulness.

It's confusing because he's also a "compulsive liar" (he's admitted) so I'm really clueless how much of this is purposeful and how much is a complete unawareness.