It's not really what I think. It's what he's told me. He's "unaware".. has "no memory" of it, must have been "subconscious".. must lack self awareness.. etc.

He briefly mentioned the "women" issue to his therapist. She said it's a "mindfulness" issue. He started reading the book called, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy workbook and it has a unit on mindfulness.

It's confusing because he's also a "compulsive liar" (he's admitted) so I'm really clueless how much of this is purposeful and how much is a complete unawareness.