Well.. it's why I've been reading up on HPD, BPD, and NPD. None of them fit him entirely, though. He's not aggressive or over the top. It's like he has traits from all 3 but not enough for them to amount to anything.. (from my untrained perspective).

Then there's his previous drug addiction that would have had some level of brain injury.. plus his brain lesions from his MS. I honestly can't answer your questions with certainty.

I guess moving forward, since he's in therapy (and with our benefits package, we're only entitled to 5-6 visits total) I'm trying to address concerns I have so he can forward them on to his therapist.. as he has, so far.

For me, I was wanting everyone's perspective on what is appropriate behaviour towards your significant other, in terms of compliments, sexual advances, etc.. so I'm not being unnecessarily critical to the point he's not going to know how to behave around me at all.. and clearly, I'm not sure what's respectful, what is typical guy behaviour, and what is a definite no.