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Old May 07, 2020, 11:40 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I do understand not wanting to have a blow up fight.

Maybe put it in writing that you think there are things to discuss and if he wants to do it via text/email or in person. It might work better in a text than face to face because it gives him time to think it through
My last two therapist have argued against texting discussions. There is a lot of misinterpretation involved in texting and emailing. I’m not a fan of face to face discussions with my husband because they usually end up with yelling, name calling, down talking in his part. Texting with him does give him time to think and respond from the heart but I’ve noticed it only occurs when it’s one really long text followed by a really long reply.
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