Well not to minimize your fears but what is going to happen if she pushes back? It is not going to kill you right? So she is going to going mad. Well let her be mad. She doesn’t have real power over you. Like she isn’t your boss. She can’t fire you.

I do believe that being a man means being responsible. But so is being a woman.

Where does it say that men are to be responsible while women have luxury moping and laying around for years to come or even their whole life. It’s a luxury to live like this.

If she was single she’d have to work and provide for herself and take care of her house or be on disability and even then still take care of her responsibilities at home. Somehow being married means she now has someone to do it all? It’s a luxury to live like she does.

I am a woman and I don’t get it.

Tell her that you are splitting responsibilities now. You need her to do XYZ during pandemics. And after pandemics she is either to get a job or if you two don’t think she should work apply for disability online and/or she’ll be doing all major household tasks all day (except heavy lifting of course) as you’ll be at work all day and kids all day at school

This really needs to stop. She can be mad. Unless she becomes physically abusive (then you csll 911) her being mad is not pleasant but it shouldn’t keep scaring you into submission

Regain your strength