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Originally Posted by Have Hope
"I told you many times over that I will not tolerate this kind of treatment.. The last time this happened, I told you we would have a serious problem if it happened again. Now we have a serious problem. Either you own up to having issues.. It's your decision."
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If you have NO tolerance to his abusive behaviours then the decision needs to be YOURS, not his.. or you end up losing credibility in anything you're saying to him.
If he's shown he's unwilling to own up to his issues, then there's nothing left for you to do. These delays are just eating at you. It's not worth it.
I suspect if he were to go to counseling, any changes he'll make won't stick with you because you're both fragile and in need of someone who's able to give you both a fresh start.