Thanks, but it's not like that. I am not going to just cope with him yelling at me. I will leave him. This behavior HAS TO CHANGE. And I will leave him if necessary. That is my line, it is my boundary, I will NOT tolerate abuse! Period. And he IS periodically abusive. I've decided enough is enough, and I will walk away from him and the marriage IF it continues in any shape or form. I am adamant. I have far too much self respect, far too much life left in me to live, and I believe in being happy and fulfilled in a marriage and in any relationship.