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Originally Posted by Buffy01
  I been though that. Call the police on her fiance. File a restraining order against him. Tell them he threaten to committed suicide and he threaten you. Start making report without leaving your name. Do this enough time he will start thinking that he being watch. Adam your neighbor to call the cops. Tell your sister she need to grow up and smell the coffee and get rid of this addict who need to go get professional mental help.
Start looking for a place and don't let them know where you moved to.
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Thank you for understanding I really appreciate that *hugs* sorry you had to go through smiliar thing too.
I don't know if me calling the pocile would make things worse. I mean I don't know when he is suicidal I only get told aftermath afterwards.
Well excatly he kinda refusing to get help fully.
I know he is on antidepressants but so am I anyway. But he hasnt fully accepted that he has.big issues and really needs help. I understand that is hard to accept that. But it's better to get help than suffering you know.
The realtionship isnt heathly. I mean my mother cooks dinner for them mostly all the time. Where as my fiancee and I cook for ourselves. My sister will make him a bath to use or have to remind him to have a shower.
If my sister says could you cook tonight he says no.
My mother feels sorry for him for what he went through in his childhood but she uses that to excuse his behavior to be abusive.
I dont think she sees that at all.