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Originally Posted by divine1966
Was he always this way? I just don’t fully understand how he hid his personality and lack of moral compass from you for so long? How long you’ve known him? Usually human nature, values and character are obvious within few months unless someone is a con artist. Is he good at pretending?
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Maybe I just didn't notice. Or maybe I thought he was "just being a jerk".. "just being insensitive" .. "just ADHD".. but as time went on, I started noticing patterns. We've been together for 6 years. I think a part of it is his sudden willingness to open up about things. He denied a lot of his lies/trickery, having me believe I was just "suspicious" and "paranoid".. something my mom had said once.
I feel like something happened between February and early April of this year. Whatever it was is no longer an issue.. and now these "confessions". So.. who knows the real story.