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Originally Posted by MsLady
It might be a good idea to apply for government housing (if you haven't already). It's not a short term solution but something you can look towards in the near future.
I suspect your brother in law is still living there because they're both financially contributing to the household, relieving some stress on your mom.
As for his snoring, maybe your sister can help address that issue. It could be a sleep apnea issue or a deviated septum, with a medical solution so everyone can get a good sleep.
Your sister's window.. if it's too hot to sleep with the door shut, it can't be too cold to sleep with the window open a slight. Talk with her again about it and see if you can all compromise.
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Yeah I get goverment money for my mental health too. Myself and my fiancee buy our own food and cook our own dinners.
Well yeah I did thought it had to be some kind of sleep apnea. He sleeps a lot even through out the day.
Excatly, if it's too hot to have bedroom shut then it cant be too cold to have window slightly open.
Yeah..its kinda hard to talk to her. I get quit scares because she gets really defences and aggressive very quickly. So I'm.not sure how to communicate. I have try my DBT therapy communication even that doesnt work on my sister or mum. They think it's some mainpulation to say how you "feel"