We've spoken about it to death. He claims he's "unaware".. it must have been done "subconsciously".. minimized his actions to innocent "people watching", denied of crushes until years later, accused me of being "jealous", "suspicious", "paranoid" .. but then recently is falling apart at the seams with worry that I've met someone else.. me. Um, ok.. then confesses about his compulsive lying.. etc.