I don’t care that much about holidays. I’d rather people had nice relationships all year around. Many families make big production out of holidays but their relationships are dysfunctional and quite miserable or downright abusive. My grandma had a friend who had lavish wedding anniversaries with big to
do every year and turned out her husband had several long term affairs. So big celebrations mean little to me.

Most people are quite miserable during holidays because they have expectations that aren’t being met. It’s better to have less expectations