Sounds trite but it's not you, it's them. I find that people who do that are constantly fighting their own inadequacies. Just because they are our family doesn't mean they aren't human. Try to forgive them and forget what they said. *hug*
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"Who says, 'Hard times? I'm used to them.
The speeding planet burns; I'm used to that'?
My life's so common it disappears.
And sometimes, even music
cannot substitute for tears."
-Paul Simon, The Cool, Cool River
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