I would give the guy who is compatible with you a chance. I like a married man too and don't want to get married to him. We have a decent online relationship but have not met yet. I realize he likes me for me and accepts me despite my illness which is a bonus for me. He is good to me but realize he can never be totally with me. This is ok by me. However, it seems you want a full-fledged relationship with someone who cares about you and can be there for you. You said you wanted to get married again in another thread. If this is the case, don't bother with the married man. Married men priorities belong to their families. I like the married man I communicate with on a daily basis because he listens to me and gives me advice. He is a good friend to me. However, it sounds like your married man is not so. He is not a friend to you. He just wants you physically. This is not good. My married man wants the best for me and tells me so. This is in regards to my family and my job. I don't know what your married man is providing for you besides just physical attraction. As a result, it would be best to leave your married man alone. Do as the others say and be with someone who cares about you and can be with you emotionally, mentally, as well as physically. Best wishes!!