Ugh. That's exactly what my husband told me when we first met: "I am a very loving, kind, sweet and giving person." Then he turned out to be the way he is - on and off abusive. I fell for it because I was very vulnerable, coming off a breakup just months before.
Sorry to interject my own story in here.
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"Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination"
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