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Old May 10, 2020, 11:22 AM
DimpleGS DimpleGS is offline
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Member Since: May 2020
Location: India
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I've had and somewhat still have this problem. I'm repeatedly verbally abused by my dad and one two partners as well. I've a lot of anxiety too. I feel no one really wants me and speak bad at my back. I feel I'm dressed weird, I don't have proper restaurant etiquettes, I'm annoying people etc... It's hard. But I'm working on it. Try to meditate. Many times things aren't personal. Like a friend saying something negative could be reason that they're jealous or just have some problem. Just yesterday one of my friend told me you're boring me and told me I've muted your messages. I mean that was quite rude of him! He is generally rude and inconsiderate towards people. But obviously it doesn't justify and I felt hurt. Because now I feel that I'm annoying him, he doesn't want to talk to me and I shouldn't message him I'm just forcing myself on him. .. like all these feelings from one comment. I mean if I say someone they're boring I don't think they would be hurt or so bothered about it right. But already I'm struggling with my mental health recently, so that is overflow of emotions. But I'm trying to take it a little lightly. If I cannot after a few days I'll tell.him clearly what I feel maybe. . .. So I'm saying is you have two options either to take it lightly let it go and take it in a positive way like ya ok you feel.bored of me I'll try not to be or I'll talk less. Or else you can have a honest conversation about it.
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