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Old May 10, 2020, 12:40 PM
MsLady MsLady is offline
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post

So I made a criticism of his father ... My husband got very defensive of his father and said I was judging him.

Then he practically excused away his father yelling
It's because he's really now talking about himself and it's hard to face a character flaw. It's why only "he" is allowed to form an opinion about his dad. Anything you say is perceived as an attack on him.

I've been through this, too.
Thanks for this!
Have Hope