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Originally Posted by -jimi-
Thing is, I really thought she'd leave me alone. How stupid I was. She was just waiting to try to get into my life. She has emailed me twice, whatsapp messaged me twice. She will soon come to my chat room and pretend everything is for me. Like am I doing OK? She never cared. She cares about herself. She really thinks she can fool people. I could block her on whatsapp, it shows if you're blocked, but I won't block her from email since it doesn't show anyway.
I can't block her from chat since it is a huge chat network, which is a bit of a problem.
I haven't talked to her since December after telling her what I think. And I promised myself never talk to her again. But if she doesn't quit contacting me, I'll start thinking of her and it's not a good place to be mentally, since I really hate her.
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So do I answer her and really make sure she understands she's not welcome, or do I just keep ignoring her? ....
So what do I do? Just keep on ignoring her and having her trying to contact me, very likely for years? With a few months apart. Or do I put an end to it and "touch" this filthy person? Ugh. I can't decide.
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I am having the same problem, basically. This guy I was friends with won't stop trying to contact me. I blocked him on texts and now he sent me a facebook chat message even though we've never messaged each other at all through facebook. Now I think he's going to start leaving messages on bits of paper on my car- he's done it before when we were still talking. He used to drive to my place and my mom's place and other places I used to frequent like Tim Horton's looking for me. I know this because he told me so! So now he's blocked on facebook, too. He just says stupid things like, "Happy Mother's Day"- that was his excuse to message me yesterday. Other days, he had sent things like, "I'm at such-and-such a restaurant. Join me if you'd like". My question is when do I call the police? He isn't threatening me, but he won't leave me alone and the facebook message he sent said "So and so has contacted you through your phone number"! Your story reminds me of mine. I'd like to learn from you. I haven't contacted him since mid-January, so four months!
Off to read more of the thread...
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